Peace and the Law

Peacemaking can take an almost poetic approach to problem solving - sometimes feeling or seeming nonlinear. In small claims and community mediation, we often find that 'it's not about the money' - it's about respect, dignity, and empowered choices. The same holds true for family agreements - fear, hurt, and anger drive conflict. When the feelings are addressed and values aligned, people can reach durable agreements quickly.

Lawyers have incredible knowledge and training to help people navigate an adversarially framed legal system. When peacemaking tools and processes are combined with that knowledge, there's an opportunity for real, almost unimaginable, transformation to take place.

As one of the outlier mediators, I'm always grateful to learn from (and refer to) the legal experts. It's been a winding journey to apply my calling as a peacemaker to an authentic practice as a family mediator - a process which involves detailed financial agreements and legal documents combined with big emotions and high stakes. I'm excited to read Forrest (Woody) Mosten and Lara Traum, Esq.'s book "Family Lawyer as Peacemaker," especially the chapter written by my mentor Patrick Kalscheur!